Roommate Rants on Sidechat | i have three roommates. i always clean my dishes after i cook & eat. if i don’t it’s usually a cup or bowl in the sink that’s it, and if they washed it i end up washing a few extra dishes bc i feel bad. but i don’t have energy to clean up after a sink-

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Roommate Rants 4d

i have three roommates. i always clean my dishes after i cook & eat. if i don’t it’s usually a cup or bowl in the sink that’s it, and if they washed it i end up washing a few extra dishes bc i feel bad. but i don’t have energy to clean up after a sink-

Anonymous 4d

just communicate and be nice and assume the best and it’ll be fine. and if they ARE being assholes, then you’ll know for sure

Anonymous 4d

filled up by three other ppl. and yet they seem to complain abt the dishes being so dirty & all this and that to me. im realizing its a way to silently say i should do them. bc they all do each others dishes ig. but i always do mine…they don’t do mine…so why should i do theirs??? is this wrong??? i alr have issues cleaning after myself due to executive dysfunction (in my personal bedroom) but never make it an issue in the common areas out of respect. yet it seems like im the one being blamed for

Anonymous 4d

bro just say “hey guys i don’t have energy to clean all the dishes but i’ve been doing mine so you guys don’t have to wash them”. and just straight up ask if they’ve been expecting that everyone does all the dishes in shifts or something. also maybe they only don’t wash yours bc they don’t see you make food and you don’t leave them to be washed like everyone else does

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OP 4d

messed idk if they think is mine not realizing it’s the other roommates or what. but they keep saying ppl need to start doing dishes & ik they do theirs when they do lol. but ofc ik they rarely see me doing it bc it’s usually empty when i make food, but i clean them then. idk it’s fucking annoying and if this is an actual like silent rule for roommates to do im not gonna adhere to it. im not saying im perfect ofc, but i do my stuff.