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My roommate thinks we’re always beefing, but it’s one sided. Legitimately I have no beef. I learned to let go of shit that upsets me for my mental health a long time ago. I move on after a disagreement and continue being genuine and living my life.
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Anonymous 20h

Also I forgot to add, if you think every disagreement is an argument and take what your roommate says personally even if it’s a simple “take your clothes out of the dryer” please reevaluate the situation. Every discussion is not a fight and getting defensive automatically will get you nowhere in life. We had a minor tiff. I’m not beefing, or seething at you with hatred like you are to me.

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Anonymous 6h

The fact you didn’t actually say anything about what their problem is with you makes me think you are 100% the problem

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2h

I did though. The problem is I’ll ask them to do something and instead of taking accountability or just doing it, they want to throw a tantrum and argue. They come from a very privileged household, I get theyre learning. But when I ask them to pitch in and clean bc I’m the only one cleaning, or to tell me next time they’re inviting someone over, it gets blown out of proportion. I’m not attacking character, I’m asking politely for communication and responsibility for the lease they also signed

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