
Also I forgot to add, if you think every disagreement is an argument and take what your roommate says personally even if it’s a simple “take your clothes out of the dryer” please reevaluate the situation. Every discussion is not a fight and getting defensive automatically will get you nowhere in life. We had a minor tiff. I’m not beefing, or seething at you with hatred like you are to me.
I did though. The problem is I’ll ask them to do something and instead of taking accountability or just doing it, they want to throw a tantrum and argue. They come from a very privileged household, I get theyre learning. But when I ask them to pitch in and clean bc I’m the only one cleaning, or to tell me next time they’re inviting someone over, it gets blown out of proportion. I’m not attacking character, I’m asking politely for communication and responsibility for the lease they also signed