
My roommate is mad I asked her to start cleaning. So in my case it’s petty shit bc there is truly no actual real issue!!! But she’s young and took it as an attack ig(probably first time being told she needs to clean up after herself). I SAID IT IN A NICE WAY THO ong. Didn’t even use trigger words like “clean up after yourself”
And I haven’t been disrespectful to her. I literally try and word everything so she doesn’t get offended cause she’s the type of person to thank me for taking out the trash like I just saved a child’s life or apologized for being loud like she just sacrificed her newborn. Aka she’s a very emotional fragile person.