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i honestly can’t tell if my roommates like me, tolerate me, or hate me. When i talk someone interrupts me or ignores me. They always hangout together and kinda like invite me because i overhear. Im the last one to like know about plans being canceled.
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Anonymous 6w

i overhear them and they actively ignore me

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Anonymous 6w

They r rude. You didn’t ask to be stuck with them. They can include u or make everyone miserable for a year. Much easier to be inclusive

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Anonymous 6w

I dont fully know the situation but i feel like they don’t hate you but maybe don’t know you want to be included more. Maybe they all have known each other longer and feel like you dont want to be bothered? Try to strengthen the one on one connections you have with people within the group and maybe try to invite them to things yourself. If they still ice you out and are rude, maybe time to move on.

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Anonymous 6w

but sometimes they’re nice. they share their food with me. invite me to their club events. take pictures with me. comment on my pictures. like idek sometimes i feel like they hate me and sometimes im like nvm they dont

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

it sucks when they’re friends and ur the random roommate 😔

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 6w

thats true. tbh i think im gonna stick to being cordial with them and stop trying go become “besties” with them. make things easier

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