If your friends are willing to ditch you on your birthday because your roommate is throwing a tantrum about being told no one time, they are not your friends.

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For context I have allowed him to sleep over any time he wants. I have never said no. And now that there's one day I don't want to feel like a third wheel in my own room on my birthday I'm the asshole. Now she's planning to go out with all our friends that night without me. So now I will be celebrating my birthday all alone.

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Pls tell me if I'm wrong for feeling kinda hurt about this. I have never posted on here before but I just need advice to see if I'm over reacting I feel like I might be

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definitely not overreacting if this is a shared bedroom situation you should never feel obligated to have a random man in your bedroom you're allowed to tell people no and have boundaries

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Seems like the girl who got told no isn’t used to that… I’ve had friends like that and lemme tell you life is a lot easier without them. I’m sorry she’s being so petty that’s straight up mean girl stuff :(

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