Roommate Rants on Sidechat | AITA for being upset that my roommate throws parties at our dorm to hang out w/ her friends like every Saturday so I need to leave around 8 and come back past midnight. I think if she want to hang out w/ her friends she can do it somewhere else..

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Roommate Rants 3w

AITA for being upset that my roommate throws parties at our dorm to hang out w/ her friends like every Saturday so I need to leave around 8 and come back past midnight. I think if she want to hang out w/ her friends she can do it somewhere else..

#ButSheSaysSheDoesntWantTo

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Anonymous 3w

Yeah no, she can go to their places sometimes. Stop leaving the house and tell her that you want to be able to use your dorm on the weekends too. She can’t play default host and essentially kick you out of your own dorm. Her choices now are to take the party elsewhere or deal with the fact that you live there too.

Anonymous 3w

I think dorms shouldnt be the go to place to hang out/throw parties

Anonymous 3w

Does she invite you to join?

Anonymous

#1 3w

Nope, but I'm not a party person in the first place. I'm mostly focusing on HW over the weekend that I need to complete

Anonymous

amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

I told her sometimes she can go party somewhere else and she was like "oh I'm not that extroverted to be outside all the time. So I need to hang out with my small groups of friends here" but the real reason I think is they all underage drink dozens of bottles together. I'm going to try to put my foot down around finals and any major tests I have coming up so I can comfortably study

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Anonymous

OP 3w

You need to start putting your foot down now so it’s not a huge blowout fight come finals.

Anonymous

amethyst_popping_bottles 3w

Call the cops on them

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Anonymous

#4 3w

Maybe not right away, but it can be used as an ultimatum: go to your friends’ places and stop kicking me out or I report all y’all for underage drinking to the RA.