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my roommate keeps disrespecting my boundaries of having her bf over. him and i got into an argument and i don’t feel comfortable w him over even when hes just in her room. what should i do?
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Anonymous 1w

i mean. it's her apartment too. talk to her about it and ask if she could go over to his, but if not then you may just have to deal with it. as long as he stays in her room it really shouldn't be an issue. what was the argument about?

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Anonymous 1w

Go over the guest policy for your place. If his presence is breaking that policy, report it.

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Anonymous 1w

R u a student or living indie?

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

she does go to his but ive told her multiple times that i dont feel comfortable w her bf bc hes aggressive but she brings him over anyway. the argument was bc i “yelled” at their dog

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

So she’s punishing you…for “yelling” at her dog…by forcing you to be around a man you’re uncomfortable with

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