
my roommate asked me if i would be comfortable if her boyfriend slept over, and i answered honestly and said no because that was out of my comfort zone. she took my answer and stuck to it because it’s not hard to be courteous. Now that i know the guy my answer would maybe be different, but if she had pushed my boundaries in that area it probably would’ve been a different story. it is a SHARED space, you don’t need to put up with boundary pushing if you’re uncomfortable.