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Listen if you can’t stand 6 minutes without your bf and feel the need to bring him into the dorm all the time or constantly ft at night you should have moved in together because it’s fucking annoying waking up to a random obnoxious man in the room.
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Anonymous 11w

Privacy and comfort violations.

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Anonymous 11w

He wouldn’t even be in your space if your sad and lonely just say that. As long as the boyfriend isn’t being disrespectful and the roommate isn’t throwing it in your face or dtm and yall have boundaries wtf is the point of complaining

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

if it’s a shared room, it absolutely is their space too lmfao they didn’t agree to a third roommate

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

my roommate asked me if i would be comfortable if her boyfriend slept over, and i answered honestly and said no because that was out of my comfort zone. she took my answer and stuck to it because it’s not hard to be courteous. Now that i know the guy my answer would maybe be different, but if she had pushed my boundaries in that area it probably would’ve been a different story. it is a SHARED space, you don’t need to put up with boundary pushing if you’re uncomfortable.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 11w

So my bed is there space???? My closet area is there space???

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 11w

This is exactly what I’m saying but the person is making it seem like in every situation having a boyfriend over is bad when your not even trying to find a common ground

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

it’s completely reasonable to not want to wake up to a strange man in ur room

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

no that’s not exactly what you’re saying. we’re actually disagreeing completely.

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