Anonymous #2 12w

I fear they BOTH pay rent so part of the space is OP's 😀

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Anonymous #1 12w

The bf can go in the other part of the space tho

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Anonymous #2 12w

So you're either choosing to be obtuse or you're not understanding the situation.

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Anonymous #2 12w

if the roommate isn’t in the room, the boyfriend shouldn’t be either.

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Anonymous #3 12w

I highly doubt he’s following her around I’m sure the quiet bf isn’t harming anyone

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Anonymous #2 12w

if the boyfriend doesn’t live there he shouldn’t be there if his girlfriend/op’s roommate isn’t in there. why is this got getting through to your head. it’s not a hard concept to grasp. it’s uncomfortable when a male you don’t know is constantly in your room.

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Anonymous #2 12w

I feel like your not understanding the point, they both pay rent for a shared space, meaning that they both probably have possessions or items of value in that apartment. What if he steals some of her shit ? I’d be a little uncomfortable too if my roommate let someone I don’t know at all to stay freely in our shared space with no one home lmao

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Anonymous #5 12w

🤓

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Anonymous #2 12w

if the girlfriend is not home then no he should not be there. He does not pay rent and the person who does is gone.

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Anonymous #6 12w

The gf pays rent so her things can be there her bf is no dif

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Anonymous #2 12w

you’re a man aren’t you.

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Anonymous #2 12w

Are you stupid on purpose or is it natural?

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Anonymous #3 12w

If you are implying that I am more level headed and logical and right due to my gender that would be very sexist

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Anonymous #2 12w

Your neither logical nor level headed pal 💀

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Anonymous #2 12w

i’m implying that you’re an idiot and that a man wouldn’t understand how a man that’s always in a girls room that a girl doesn’t know makes the girl very uncomfortable. it’s not that complicated.

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Anonymous #3 12w

I’m sure he’s just as uncomfortable

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Anonymous #2 12w

so then she shouldn’t be in the room without his girlfriend present. boom problem solved glad we can agree

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Anonymous #3 12w

***he shouldn’t be***

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Anonymous #3 12w

Throwing him out in the street for no reason would seem like solving the problem to your dumbass huh

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Anonymous #2 12w

i never said he’s getting thrown to the street the fuck. he can go to his own place.

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Anonymous #3 12w

Maybe he can’t or it’s far away

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Anonymous #2 12w

oh no how would a couple ever survive not living together!!!! the horrors!!!!

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Anonymous #2 12w

if he TRULY couldn’t go back to his place op’s roommate would’ve had a convo with op about this and the post would not have been made.

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Anonymous #7 12w

When we sat down to have a roommate meeting and I told the other girls their boyfriends couldn’t live here (4 girls in the apartment, 2 bfs living here) I got called immature and unreasonable. I did try ¯\_(ツ)_/¯

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Anonymous OP 12w

if the boyfriends live there and they aren’t on the lease you should contact your landlord. and tell the boyfriends they should start contributing to rent and utilities

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Anonymous #3 12w

Idk it seems as though no conversation was had ever

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Anonymous #2 12w

except op replied to another comment saying she did have a convo with the roommates. and the roommates aren’t respecting her boundaries.

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Anonymous #3 12w

I already tired contacting the leasing office and they basically told me “too bad”. My roommates like to sit outside my window and smoke pot (also against the lease) and they got caught but nothing happened.

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Anonymous #3 12w

Yall are acting like he’s in her fucking bedroom

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Anonymous #2 12w

if op isn’t comfortable with a her roommates boyfriend being in the apartment when the roommate isn’t there that’s a VALID BOUNDARY to have. why should he be in there when she’s not? there’s no reason for it. if he’s there all the time he should contribute to rent, utilities, groceries, cleaning, etc. i hated coming home and wanting to relax and watch tv after a long day of class to find that a man i hardly know was in my living room when my roommate wasn’t home.

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Anonymous OP 12w

what the fuck that’s insane. i would honestly keep reporting it until they do something cause it’s the job of the leasing office to make sure rules are being followed. if they don’t pay rent they can’t stay there 24/7.

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Anonymous #3 12w

My dad even called about the pot because it could mess with his job stuff if the cops get involved and the leasing office told him they weren’t gonna do anything. My lease ends in July so I’m just trying to gtfo

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Anonymous OP 12w

sending love your way girl you don’t deserve to live in this hell space and i’m sorry that #2 keeps trying to make it seem okay when it’s not

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Anonymous #3 12w

I think #2 is rage bating or is actually a stupid individual. Thank you so much for the support 🫶

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Anonymous OP 12w

of course!! us girls gotta stick together🫶🏻

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Anonymous #2 12w

It doesn’t matter! I had a roommate whose bf basically moved in with us (didn’t ask me or the other girl or anything). It was super disrespectful and quite frankly it’s uncomfortable to know there’s just a person living in my apartment that I don’t know and didn’t agree to live with

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Anonymous #8 12w

Boo hoo not in your room not your area not your deal

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Anonymous #3 12w

You could’ve told him to leave the living room like a normal person

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Anonymous #2 12w

Well 3 things: 1) when the utility bills are split evenly it is very much my deal 2) I’d much rather not run into a man in just his underwear walking around my apartment when I leave my room 3) I signed a lease to live with 3 people, not 4. There is absolutely no way to justify having a bf move in without the roommates’ consent

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Anonymous OP 12w

Wait they won't do anything about him? Usually these places are money hungry so an extra head living there and not paying rent will upset them 🤔

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Anonymous #1 12w

It’s student living. They don’t give a shit as long as they get paid

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Anonymous #10 12w

It’s a 3 consecutive night limit and when I told them they wouldn’t do anything about it bc they didn’t see evidence of an extra person when doing inspections

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Anonymous OP 12w

depending on your state there may be laws that allow you to have cameras up and you can use that as evidence

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Anonymous #11 11w

They did walk in on me wearing my bf’s hoodie and underwear last week 🫣 didn’t know he was coming over

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Anonymous #2 11w

I’m pretty sure that she has done that already. If you’ve never experienced bad roommates, then you have no room to talk shit

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Anonymous #2 11w

yikes, u gotta be ragebaiting

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Anonymous #13 11w

It’s just too easy 🤷🏼‍♂️

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Anonymous #14 11w

Me in my room but why does this guy constantly want to be at her place alone that's so odd. I would never hang out for a n extended period of time at my bfs apartment with just his roommate because that's strange

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Anonymous #14 11w

It’s a very hostile living environment. We had the roommate meeting and it went downhill bc I got attacked the whole time. She would constantly bang on my door and blast music through the wall when she knew I was studying. I’m so ready to get out

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Anonymous OP 11w

Like if anything goes wrong, she blames it on me. Someone used her coconut amino and left it out and she assumed it was me (I don’t even know what it is). Mind you she’s 19 as well so…

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Anonymous OP 11w

Is this a dorm? You could get moved if you get the university involved if it's an apartment I suggest going on your school or areas Facebook and getting someone to sublet yso you can move out because nothing is worth living like this

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Anonymous #14 11w

It’s a student apartment and subletting in this area is hard bc it’s so common. I am interviewing roommates for when my lease ends in July so just gotta stick it out for a little longer

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