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I love my roommate/ friend so much, but she doesn’t do anything around the house to help me out. I’m the one making us dinner everyday and she won’t even load the dishwasher afterwards so I’m just stuck doing everything :/ I don’t know what to do
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Anonymous 12w

Why are you making her dinner? She’s a grown adult, you make your own dinner and then she’ll have to make her own and clean it up herself🤷‍♀️

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Anonymous 12w

Have you… tried talking to her about it?

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Anonymous 12w

Get ur ra involved and if nothing changes I would get the hell out tbh. You can still be friends w her but living w someone is SO different

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

Yeah but nothing has changed

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 12w

I also ask her to do those things and she does it once and never does it again. I shouldn’t have to remind her as we are both adults :(

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Answer dm

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12w

Stop contributing. She is abusing your kindness!

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