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ok … i live in a dorm. tell me why i always see my roommates bf in my room and never her ? like wtf… it’s gotten to the point i just moved to my bfs room… who happens to also be roommates with my roommate bf
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Anonymous 1w

U shouldnt have moved u shouldve told him to leave especially if shes not there

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Anonymous 1w

I should've talked to the ra yes ... But I'm horrible at confrontation and she's literally never there and isn't great with her phone... And I couldn't get myself to talk to him cuz he just pissed me off sm

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Wait a damn minute I just re read the post you’re right… it’s not the bfs dorm it’s the ops?!! And why didn’t they tell the RA….

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

And girl I resonate with ts heavy but that’s your fucking room they have no respect for you and took that shit over which violates the handbook fs, idk you’re situation atm but I’m suggesting you stand on business let the RA or housing know, you can’t have people walking all over you all the time THATS WHAT THEURE DOING LIKE TEH ADUCAITY IS INSANE

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

Yea it just got so bad so quickly that I was like I would rather live with my boyf... Bc they are disgusting too they don't take out the trash and don't shower. ... And it was getting so close to the end of the yr then I'm done

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

Even crazier... She's repeatively called me to let him in ... To grab stuff sure idc... She called me to let him in to nap

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Yeah u need to start telling her no and telling her bf to leave. My old roommate freshman year did the exact same thing so i told him he cant stay at night anymore and cant be in here when shes not, and she listened but eventually she moved into her own room so maybe thats how itll be for you. But yeah dont just stay in someone elses room bc its basically rewarding them for not respecting your soave and teaches them that they can get away with it and youll just leave.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

I have one more week at this point and I started avoiding them bc of the smell they create in the room... But yea I should've I really regret not doing something sooner

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