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Roommate Rants 9w

Am i crazy or is inviting a bunch of random ppl over without letting the other roommates know evil? Like why is there a bunch of randoms here past 8pm being loud??

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Anonymous 9w

i would say it’s more inconsiderate and disrespectful than evil

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Anonymous 9w

Literally had a roommate who did this almost nightly in the beginning of the semester…

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Anonymous 9w

My roommate had random people over until the next morning. And left our door unlocked the whole time even when they went to sleep🙃

Anonymous 9w

I feel like its not crazy just not a nice thing to do. especially if yall have already clarified that you need to ask to bring ppl over. ofc if its not clarified thats where it gets a bit more grayed out because they may not have known to ask but also its the decent thing to not be super loud

Anonymous 9w

you’d hate my roommates

Anonymous 9w

That’s when you call the police, and they’re going to ask for IDs. If they see drinking or drugs, they’ll involve the jail. I did that. It was some underage kids there who used fakes. They were drinking the people who served them alcohol; was arrested. I never had another issue after that.

Anonymous 9w

but like a sunday night, blaring music till the whole shakes and inviting random ass people w no warming? not to mention they don’t even stay there fr, they just rent payers fr

Anonymous 9w

Nah I would just be normal and slime them all out

Anonymous 9w

Omg yes my roommates literally acted like I was a Karen bc I got sick of their shit and started complaining about them out loud. Bc of that they started stealing my shit. They were severely psychotic. And disturbed.

Anonymous 9w

I had this and addressed it and she acted like I was crazy for not liking living at the party 24/7

Anonymous 9w

been there, done that. I used to walk into the common area and shut all the lights off and walk straight back to my bed.. they'd knock on my door. live your own and peace

Anonymous 9w

god i’m so happy i graduated

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Anonymous 9w

if you’re in college it’s gonna happen be an adult

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Anonymous 9w

Yes you’re it’s their room as well wtf 😭

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Anonymous 9w

Warning def should’ve been given BUT unless you got work only just join the fun pimp. Your only young once

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Anonymous 9w

I mean they also pay rent if anything yall like have a set time where yall would like guests if it’s that deep

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Anonymous

#6 9w

but also this depends on if your in your own room like if you guys shared a room its deifinitely bad but if you dont share the same room but same living space it goes to my previous statement of it being in a gray area

Anonymous

#6 9w

it’s not technically a “shared space” or a living space but where they were playing loud music is below everyone’s room….in a residential neighborhood with the doors open…i ended up leaving but like a heads up or something would’ve been more understandable imo. also definitely not saying i’m perfect or anything like i don’t actively try to be that loud that late. like sometimes i play music on my speaker but it’s usually when they aren’t home. so i just don’t understand the thought process

Anonymous

#7 9w

i thought abt it especially since they were blaring music with the doors open in a neighborhood but i genuinely can’t deal with that fall out tbh

Anonymous

OP 9w

house*

Anonymous

OP 9w

That’s on them; they shouldn’t be doing that. I would rather have a fallout than a noise complaint, and now you’re involved in something you can’t get out of.

Anonymous

#8 9w

i’m looking into those kinds of services atm lowk

Anonymous

#10 9w

they legitimately have the conversational skills of a brick wall

Anonymous

#7 9w

Ngl u need to chill cuz if u did that first time ur weird, if u did that AFTER explaining ur boundaries maybe but even then involving cops in matters u can resolve with ur peers is just werird imo

Anonymous

#13 9w

wait omg same

Anonymous

#9 9w

Mannn yall must hate having fun. Idk why im getting hella downvotes

Anonymous

#9 9w

why would i wanna have fun w disrespectful ass people lowk? not to mention sometimes to situation is worse than just going to hangout w them bru

Anonymous

OP 9w

Look I’m going off minimum information here. I just feel like trying to make the best of it is better than being mad about it is all

Anonymous

#9 9w

i’ve tried (i’m going insane over ts)

Anonymous

OP 9w

If it’s fr that bad I’d listen to the person that said call the cops. They’ll keep it anonymous and it’ll be like someone else calling in

Anonymous

#9 9w

But overall good luck homie

Anonymous

#9 9w

preciate it

Anonymous

#14 9w

It’s not my fault you choose to do illegal shit that’s not my fault. I’m not getting in trouble because you decide to bring drugs into my apartment that I also pay rent for not my problem.

Anonymous

#7 9w

literally or cause damage (or let other people cause damage) to property i have to pay and worry about

Anonymous

OP 9w

Right, like you can get damage charges for that, and it comes out of your pocket. Nobody is about to just hand out dollars on something they didn’t cause. And most apartments don’t care who did it; they just want their money.

Anonymous

#7 9w

i’m sayingggg like they wanna charge us for some random shit with the ac or wtv like i haven’t even been there i ain’t dealing w it tf

Anonymous

#14 9w

Clearly you’ve never been in a situation where you’re being inconvenienced daily by your roommates.

Anonymous

OP 9w

And it goes on your credit if you don’t pay it

Anonymous

OP 9w

They’re hard-headed asf, risking their academic career over noise complaints

Anonymous

#13 9w

im saying i completely gave up on school my fall semester because of how bad it was w them but now im dealing w the consequences of that. SOOOO YEAH IM MAD

Anonymous

#10 9w

This doesn’t work. They will bring them any time they want anyways. Bc that’s what people tend to do when they are inconsiderate.