Her excuse "I don't want to ask for permission whenever I use the dishwasher" when that's not even what I asked. I asked that if she's running the dishwasher, to give me a chance to put stuff in and let me shower first. I literally said I could just run in every night. All she has to do is go "Hey, I'm about to run the dishwasher", which gives me time to let her know I was just about to shower (even though I have showered around 8pm every day for the past 7 months), and to let me run it.

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I just wanted to add If you live in an apartment there might be something wrong with the water heater ts was happening to me.

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