
^this!!! i agree with everyone that she needs to do better, especially when living in shared spaces, but not showering with access to one often signifies a poor mental health episode. it’s always best to approach with kindness and empathy, while still setting clear boundaries and expectations for what you need as well. ask her if anything’s wrong, and offer help/suggestions without judgement. shame and ridicule as seen in these comments will only make the problems worse.