Anonymous OP 1d

Use this to your advantage. More than likely your roommate is going to act like you’re the problem so you need to show up calm and with any receipts you have (like screenshots of messages asking her for those things). Your roommate is likely to be dramatic and over-exaggerate to prove her “point” but as long as you remain calm and stick to the topic at hand the complex should side with you.

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 1d

She’s already acting like it. She’s asking why I went and told them about the problem. I told her we can be mature and talk about it ourselves. But she wants a third person on there

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Anonymous OP 1d

Just keep as much communication as you can to text so you can show you wanted a mature conversation and show that to the mediator. Be as cooperative as possible and let her show herself to be the unreasonable one

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 1d

She was responding in emojis instead of having an actual conversation and said I was “spamming” when I was responding to her text at 8 pm. She said she didn’t want to converse at 8 pm

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Anonymous OP 1d

Yeah those screenshots are really not gonna help her case come the meeting.

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 1d

She finally got we should talk by ourself since we are grown adults

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 1d

She’s FINALLY communicating

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 1d

Update: told her we need to talk at 10 (when I got back) she said she was tired (which I understand) she’s not to “tired” to talk to her bf

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Anonymous OP 1d

Yeah I just see this as her new tactic to avoid the conversation. She might’ve realized she’ll look crazy at mediation

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 1d

I thought she would of come out when I got home. Cause that’s what I’ve would of done.

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