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My roomates have parties every weekend, they used to not notify me, now they tell me beforehand bc I complained but they don’t ask if it’s okay. I’m allowed to say no to them right? If I wanna have a quiet night in I should be allowed to.
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Anonymous 1w

Yes

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Anonymous 1w

You can absolutely say no it’s your place too

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1w

But they don’t like ask permission, they just say “btw we’re having a party”, and the one time I said no they said they have the right to have people over

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

report them to the college if its in dorms as theyre having the party, if not they probably gonna keep doing it

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

I hate your type of roommates. You have to put your foot down otherwise they will continue to walk over you

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Very sorry your in this situation

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1w

I try to put my foot down and they basically say I’m not allowed to tell them they can’t have guests..so then they just say they’ll have them out by a certain time or something but still it’s annoying

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1w

Try and have them go to one of the other peoples place. If they say it’s inconvenient tell them so is having them at yours

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