Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 12w

our lease doesn’t end until late august so she still has the right to come in but we just don’t know why she comes this late or without saying anything to us 😖

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Anonymous #4 12w

omg that’s so annoying, like it takes 2 seconds to just say hey i’m coming over

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Anonymous #2 12w

man i wish, but unfortunately she’s still on the lease until august so there’s not much we can do 💔💔

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Anonymous OP 12w

also its an apartment owned by our university so i dont think we’re allowed to change the locks anyways

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Anonymous #3 12w

yeah i’m just as lost too, i saw her one time and she just said hi and walked away like it was completely normal 😒

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Anonymous OP 12w

Look over the lease and see if there’s anything to report about the situation, especially anything related to guests. Why is she coming over that late with family anyways?

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 12w

we genuinely have no idea. for more context she would invite her family and bf over before but she usually would tell us before they came over. about a month ago we had kind of a falling out bc none of us wanted to room with her bc 1. she wasn’t a good roommate and 2. she’s always gone. now she gives us no warning when she’s coming back or that her family is there with her 💀

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Anonymous OP 12w

It’s time to give her a written boundary, probably via text, that just because she moved out that the rules don’t stop applying, especially if she still plans to come over and not break the lease. Tell her that now not only is she still required to tell you guys when she and others are coming over, but I would also make the boundary that no visitors beside herself are allowed to come over between 8pm and 8am. I’m concerned that the 3am visits are some form of “revenge” she’s pulling so that

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Anonymous OP 12w

needs to be shut down.

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Anonymous amethyst_popping_bottles 12w

thank you for the advice!! i will def look into doing that and look over the lease

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Anonymous #5 12w

ughhh that’s the worstttt, like at least have the decency to ask before letting others into a shared space like that

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Anonymous OP 12w

They saw my toys cause the my room door was open there whole family 😰

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Anonymous #4 12w

OH NOOOOOO 😭😭😭

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