
Omg THIS!! When I had roommates they never understood that a heads up can change everything. They’d bring people over without warning at literally all times of day (yes, including the middle of the night) and they’d be loud af and I couldn’t sleep, get my work done, or eat (they’d be in the kitchen for HOURS). There were even times they’d bring men over while I was in the shower and then the men would see me in my robe as I tried to get back to my room. It made me soooo uncomfortable
Mine does it at least once a week if not more. I’ll leave my room and there’s one of her friends or her fuckbuddies just chilling in our living room or kitchen. I’m really not a people person so I don’t like having people in our apartment, especially ones I barely know who try to make small talk with me