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Relationship Advice 4w
Why is long distance so fucking hard. He left yesterday and I’m so anxious and crying rn. His last two nights we did wine and movies and hangout but I kept falling asleep and I’m still kicking myself for falling asleep both times. I wish I’d stayed up
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Anonymous 4w

I feel like such a fucking child rn. I’ve never struggled this much to be okay after one of his visits. Usually I’m a little sad for the rest of the day and the next day kinda sucks not having him around but I’m usually fine and can function. But today I woke up with an aching anxiety and it took me 2 hours to get out of bed, and now that I am I’m crying.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Please just take a deep breath. The first few days are difficult but you will be okay.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

You love him. It’s okay to feel upset when the one you absolutely adore is miles away. My advice, don’t ignore it but don’t make it your whole existence rn either. Try take your mind off it. Go out with friends, ring him up and talk, have a you day where you get a facial or something. Trust me!!! It’s okay to miss someone you’re used to having around. Can I ask, how long did he stay this time compared to other times? Is this the longest he’s stayed before?

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