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What do I do if the guy I'm seeing says "I love you" when 1. We haven't officially gotten in a relationship 2. It's been like 3-4 weeks of us hanging out 3. I'm still anxious to commit after being devastated by my last relationship
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Anonymous 4w

You run. That is a classic love bombing tactic

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Anonymous 4w

3-4 weeks is craaaaazy early, especially if he hasn't even asked you to put a label on anything yet. it may or may not be lovebombing but it is definitely weird

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Anonymous 4w

I don’t have good advice but me personally? I’d just think he’s stupid. Some men are so desperate for love (speaking from experience, not to bash) that they see it anywhere and it’s like, do you even love me? Or just the me you made up in your head?

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Anonymous 4w

That’s weird I’d personally prob ghost em

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Anonymous 4w

Go with the flow, don’t think to much

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 4w

Danger level?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 4w

You sure?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Huh?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Danger level 10, especially if he knows ur vulnerable from ur last relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

DO NOT DO THIS!!! HIS ACTIONS ARE MANIPULATIVE. It’s fine to “go with the flow” In new relationships as long as you are still being mindful of red flags

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4w

Yup

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