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Relationship Advice 14h
so i was with this guy for like 6 months and it did not end well anyways my “best friend” (who also knew me through all of that) i guess “got close” with him and is having his kid? keep in mind i FOUND OUT and we had just had a convo abt not hiding shit
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Anonymous 14h

holy. i literally had this happen but i dated the guy and she baby trapped him just to throw it in my face. then forced his hand 😵‍💫 consider it a dodged bullet

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 14h

the thing is when i found out i immediately called her cause i thought it was a rumor and then she hits me with the “yeah that’s why ive been wanting to talk” but i was getting ready for a concert so it didn’t set in until days later and idk how to bring it up and be like yeah so actually

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 13h

unfortunately there’s nothing you can do. i can promise you that’s not a man you want to be with. he literally put you aside and chose her and he’s now suffering with the consequences

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 10h

no idc about him it’s HER that idk how to feel abt

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 10h

ohh okay. well same thing i feel. she went behind your back then, why would you want to be friends with someone that would put you in that position. it’s disrespectful. she did it once she will do it again. you can try to talk about it but you definitely need to discuss that boundary that was crossed. just remember this is so much deeper than a simple rumor. she is about to potentially change her life and another life that you were also crossed with

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