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I’ve been dating my boyfriend for 6 years. 14-20. Sometimes I feel like we’re together out of obligation and time commitment. Today I felt attracted to someone else and I would never act on it but these feelings make me feel icked out about my boyfriend.
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Anonymous 11w

Lost the spark. Happens a lot. Take your selves back to memory lane and tell him you miss it.

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Anonymous 11w

Yeah I tried and she left me and got with a dude right away and he cheated on her like in the first 2 months and she wanted to come back and I was like I don’t want you back now. I’m not your fall guy. Since HS like 13 years.

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

Wish I did this tbh

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 11w

You know this spark stuff is a paradox. Nature will produce a better person overtime and one can eventually run into this person. It really does depend on the context but fun and games can’t be sustain for long and no tv show can entertain people forever. Thus it is the question about the purpose of life and also why be with someone. Virtue and virtue alone should be the sole motivator because pleasure betrays.

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