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Relationship Advice 1d
be honest if you were talking to a girl you met online for a few days and you guys were flirting and sending face pics and stuff, but then you found out she’s pretty overweight, would you stop talking to her?
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Anonymous 1d

i’ve done it before. and i’ve been ghosted for not being as cute as they thought in their head happens

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Anonymous 18h

This is going to sound weird, but as a queer woman with a preference for women, I hope she is, I prefer bigger women. I hope things go well with you and this other person and maybe I’d address it before someone gets hurt

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Anonymous 1d

As someone who isn’t skinny, this happens all the time to us. Guys only want skinny girls and once they find out what we really look like they leave. Even though we didn’t do anything to the guy. I think you could at least give her a chance. Some people have medical issues that make them bigger.

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Anonymous 14h

I’m gonna be honest as a guy I see this a ton, if u wanna keep from getting hurt just be up front

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 1d

ty for being honest that’s very true we all have preferences

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

i’m the girl in this situation and i’m worried this will happen it sucks so bad

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 1d

I understand that you are worried, I think it sucks that guys prefer skinny girls even if the girl who is bigger is pretty, kind, and everything they are wanting

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

yeahhh fr 😭

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 18h

good point i probably should bring it up

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 14h

ok ty good point

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 6h

yeah, I agree with him, always putting out a real description can avoid possible backlash in the future and by backlash, I mean them realizing the personality might be a 10 but they don’t think the body is a 10 for them

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