
Is he Mabey bi? I am and struggled with telling my gf this. If you’re ok with it then I would ask him. My gf is pretty open emotionally and so she asked and said it was ok if I was. And I was. Ofc how you go on after is your choice. I stayed with my gf, not that I ever was going to leave her. She’s the love of my life. But there is def ways to stimulate that male presence in his life. Pig toys or even pegging which we do. Have a long convo and discuss what you both feel though