
This is the kinda question that requires a damn flow chart If you into it, do it. If you’re ambivalent, consider it more. Maybe set boundaries- for example, location, clothes, timing, etc etc. kink is supposed to be comfortable and enjoyable for both parties. If you deeply dislike the idea, don’t do it. Politely but firmly tell him that you’re not interested. If he pushes, know that he’s being a dick. Above all, don’t let yourself be pressured into something that makes you uncomfortable.