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Relationship Advice 7w
A guy I like who I'm casually dating/kinda fwb is slowly pulling away or being less engaged in our conversation. What can I do, I really really like him and want it to work
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Anonymous 7w

You can tell him that you have feelings for him and want a relationship and if he says he doesn’t feel the same way then cut contact so you can move on

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Anonymous 7w

Just gotta put yourself in it 110%. Ultimately if he doesn’t match the energy, there’s nothing you can do

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Anonymous 7w

Time and effort is all you can do and beyond that it’s out of your hands

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Anonymous 7w

As much as you want it to work the more you let him pull away and continue to stay he will take advantage of you putting more effort and continue to pull away and keep you around

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Anonymous 7w

Men either know what they want or are unsure due to outside factors. A man shouldnt ever be unsure of a womans love you are too good

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

But like...then I risk having to most likely cut contact and move on which is worse than like a weird limbo situation

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Actually it’s the best thing because if you have to do that then later on you’ll eventually meet a guy who genuinely loves you and wants to be with you and trust me you don’t wanna miss out on that feeling and you deserve that!

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 7w

Yeah but also I likely won't cause I don't find many people attractive and then i also am picky with personality which narrows the pool to practically nothing

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 7w

Maybe your preferences will change over time.. the point is all you can do at this point is see if he wants the same thing you want. If he doesn’t letting him go is the healthiest thing you can do for you. Just try I mean maybe he’s not being as responsive because he’s going through something rn? I mean ask why he’s pulling away and just be upfront with how you’re feeling

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