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Agreed with my ex that we could still be friends when we broke up. But it just hurts so much to see her, I can’t stand it. I know she probably hates me bc I’m breaking that promise, but my chest aches and I just wanna cry when I look into her eyes
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Anonymous 16h

Yeah bro it’s okay most dudes cant, I tried to do that years ago with a girl I liked and I wanted to vomit when I’d hear about her dating and stuff. Just put distance between you and her, and if she says whats up just say youre having a hard time but trying to do rigjt by her

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Anonymous 16h

Go out with the guys. U will feel better. Go see a band. Tomorrow is a Friday the 13th convention in Edison. Bet u will see some baddies there

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Anonymous 10h

This is why cutting contact is healthier than staying friends

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 13h

I’m really trying. I’m making a lot of effort to go out more and I’m actually quite proud of myself! It’s still hard, especially because I don’t really have a lot of friends so a lot of times I go out alone. But sometimes I have fun going out and it makes the bad days a little bit more worth it :)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 12h

That’s great! I love going out for karaoke. I don’t have many friends too. Well I made some friends through karaoke. You will get through this chapter of your life. Promise. When I broke up with my ex bfs it made me like the absolute worst especially when u had to look at them in college around campus. At least you know you can love. Some people don’t feel that emotion.

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 9h

I genuinely thought I was gonna be fine with it 💀💀

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 9h

Yeah no ppl think that and then realize they need to heal so you live and you learn

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