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Relationship Advice 14h
My boyfriend is texting this friend that he says I wouldn't know and always turns his phone away when I look over. Am I cooked?
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Anonymous 12h

Nah he’s cooked! You just dodged a bullet! 😮‍💨

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Anonymous 12h

Yes

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Anonymous 12h

He's working on a side piece

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Anonymous 8h

You’re not cooked, your next move and response has to be thought out. Obviously I’m sure you don’t want to start an argument, you want a solid honest answer. Which calls for a sit down discussion. Express your discomfort, if he’s not doing anything wrong I’m sure he will properly reassure you. Don’t react or speak through emotions, it won’t help anyone involved in the situation. Not sure how your dynamic is either so it’s hard to really give a full opinion.

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Anonymous 11h

Does he ever sleep around you? Can you look through the messages if he does sleep so you can decide what to do based on said messages 😬

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Anonymous 13h

Yes

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Anonymous 1h

Hey is a red flag

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Anonymous replying to -> bl00dmoon 10h

Yeah- dyk his password? I know everyone says it’s an invasion of privacy but if he’s acting like this, then you have the right to know!

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8h

If he tries to make you feel like you’re crazy don’t react negatively in anyway. No yelling, aggression, cursing etc. Always deescalate I promise in the end it feels better that you don’t let yourself get out of your body for ANYONE. At that point you gotta let him go, a real man will reassure you that he respects you and your relationship. Not manipulating you into thinking you’re tripping, it’s normal to feel odd feelings towards things like that.

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Anonymous replying to -> #6 8h

I get that a lot of people in relationships hate confrontation/conversations about this. They start to feel as though you don’t trust them or the relationship, then they use that against you. “How could you not trust me? That’s not cool..” BS.. Any real loyal person would never be upset about reassuring the people they love. Family, friends, partners. It doesn’t matter. Get that reassurance, if it goes south leave.

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