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Relationship Advice 6w
If a colleague of the opposite gender keeps offering to hangout with you outside of work hours, to watch a movie/tv show… would you think they’re interested in you?
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Anonymous 6w

Double yes

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Anonymous 6w

Update: I asked her if she’d want to come over to my apartment to watch a movie on Wednesday. I’ll let you know what she says!

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Anonymous 6w

I’ll bet 10 dollars she’s into to. Like I’m so sure I will actually Venmo you 10 bucks if she turns you down 😭

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Anonymous 6w

yes

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Anonymous 4d

Update: I asked if she’d like to see a movie tomorrow… over text this morning ~12 hours ago, and so far she hasn’t responded🫣

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Anonymous 6w

100%. this exactly happened to me.

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Anonymous 6w

However Also, I have to watch a science movie for class and I mentioned which one I want to watch and she said “Oh well let me know when you’re gonna watch it and if I’m available I’ll watch it with you”👀

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Anonymous 6w

I just don’t want to be reading into it if she’s not interested because we are coworkers but I also have a hugeee crush on her

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Anonymous 6w

We all went and walked around the zoo for 4 hours together last weekend! (I invited her out)

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Anonymous 6w

*also

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

Well okay, here’s the thing both me and her work in the same lab. Recently we’ve been watching S2 of DandaDan on the weekends in a conference room at work cause I was too scared to invite her over to my place. However I sent her a tiktok that was like a “date idea” of watching pirates of the Caribbean with fancy snacks (it didn’t say date idea) and she said that maybe we should do that for Halloween cause it look like it’d be fun! So I’m planning on trying to do something for that

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Honestly sounds like yall are dating at this point already 💀 just ask her out for real please

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Okay!!!!! Good luck!

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 6w

I gave her the option of watching it at my place or in a conference room at work. She chose the conference room since we are going to watch as soon as we are finished in lab. But I feel embarrassed to talk to her. I’m over analyzing too much. We went out for drinks with another person from our lab last Saturday and the conversations turned questionable (discussing past ex’s/boners/spicy picture sending) and I think it’s just like making me feel like I crossed a boundary. I’m just very antsy

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Well was she involved in those conversations?

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

She was present and she talked about her experiences, but it was mainly questions asked between my male coworker and I (directed at each other)

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 6w

Please just ask her out straight up the games are what’s killing you

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Anonymous replying to -> #5 6w

agreed with 5

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 6w

We watched the movie together. I’m just nervous to bring it up because she’s a coworker in my lab. If she’s not interested I don’t want her to feel uncomfortable. That’s kinda why I’m not trying to make moves unless she gives a clear sign that she’s interested. But I also don’t know if I’d recognize if she was interested if she did send a signal unless she straight up asked me on a date.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 4d

Does it say she read it?

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 4d

Nope, but I have a response now!!! She’s busy this weekend, but asked if we could go next Friday or Saturday😊

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 3d

Yay!!!!!!!

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 15h

I made up some plans for the movie… and then asked her if she’d want to get dinner with me beforehand, she went “No, it wouldn’t be within my budget” and I went “Oh, well I would be willing to to pay for you” and she seemed kinda stunned and then went “No…” so🫠 we might still see a movie on Saturday and we may not. But that’s okay

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 15h

Did you specify that you wanted this to be a date?

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Anonymous replying to -> mother_russia 15h

I did with the suggestion of dinner, when I originally asked about the movie plans I was not considering it a date. I made no intention of it being a date and was simply excited to hangout

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 14h

Oohhh gotcha

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