Relationship Advice on Sidechat | I miss him. I shouldn’t. He didn’t call or text me unless I texted first. I felt like he was forcing himself to talk to me. He forced me to end it and I just want to go back to him even though he won’t change. He said he’d always love me. Idk what to do.

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Relationship Advice 3w

I miss him. I shouldn’t. He didn’t call or text me unless I texted first. I felt like he was forcing himself to talk to me. He forced me to end it and I just want to go back to him even though he won’t change. He said he’d always love me. Idk what to do.

Anonymous 3w

He said that just to fuck with you in the long term, and get another chance with you if he's bored. don't fall for it.

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Anonymous 3w

It’s called manipulation. I was in a similar situation myself not too long ago. Give it time, trust me it gets better I promise.

Anonymous

#1 3w

He said it all so genuinely. I just hate feeling like it wasn’t ever real. Like I didn’t matter. I want to reach out to him and just ask. I feel like I need the closure because when I ended it he was still saying “I’m too busy to devote myself to you fully right now, but I do love you”. I want him to know I see through the bullshit or have him realize it was a bullshit excuse and step up. It would be easier to move on if I hated him.

Anonymous

OP 3w

lol no lie 100% of what you just typed is what I've been going through the past few months so trust me when I say I get it. unfortunately sometimes you have to make your own closure

Anonymous

#1 3w

It’s just hard because he was never mean. He just didn’t prioritize me. He apologized and never blamed me. He listened. But he never made the effort. I’m just confused and I just want to ask him for clarity because how tf can he do that and not care? Like I feel like I can never trust when someone says I love you again because they could be fucking faking it. But I just want to hear what he says because I never called him out. I told him “it was okay. He was just busy.” even when I was leaving.

Anonymous

OP 3w

he could genuinely be a psychopath.

Anonymous

#1 3w

Maybe. But I still feel like I just need the closure and clarity of him getting mad or telling me that he doesn’t want me. Just anything besides thinking he’s either hurting too or he’s thinking that he did nothing wrong.