That’s valid but does still mean they don’t want to do it because they’re prioritizing other things. Doesn’t mean they’re bad but it DOES mean the other person gets to decide if their inability to do something is a dealbreaker or not.

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I just in general don’t agree with the mentality of “I expect someone to come over every hurdle life has given them to do something that makes me happy for no other reason than I want them to” especially when it comes to stupid shit

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Then don’t be w whomever person is feeling a need for that emotional aspect of a relationship

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