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How do people stay single? Over my been single for a month and everything is making me want a relationship but everyone’s telling me to stay single and focus on me, but like I am not used to being alone so much, ☠️☠️
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Anonymous 2w

The inability to be alone in comfort is exactly why you need to learn to be alone

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Anonymous 2w

Make new friends!

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

That’s why I’m trying to turn down peoples advances, but every time i get home and sit by myself too long I just regret it and wish someone was here. I grew up in a big family and live alone and I’ve never lived alone alone till the relationship ended

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

You have to go out and explore your hobbies. You need to find meaning in life without someone being there basically. To learn about yourself

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 2w

I just hike atp, it helps but I can’t do it all day adhd makes it hard to not hate the silence

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 2w

Yeah that’s why you find meaningful hobbies and activities to get dopamine in a healthy way

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