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Is it normal that I feel disconnected when I don’t have sex with my gf often enough? It’s currently ~ 2x/mo for us because she’s studying for an exam. It makes me feel like we’re friends not a couple. Am I being selfish?
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Anonymous 3d

Explore opportunities to keep things fresh, like dating.. just a casual walk on campus, a “hey, how’s your day going?” Or how can I help alleviate the stress from studies

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Anonymous 2d

be open about your needs to her but also respect her boundaries. there are going to be times when it’s not as often as other times, she may just be stressed rn until the exam is over and then it might pick up

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Anonymous 2d

Offer to help her with things to make her life easier because you care about her. When she’s less stressed, she might be more willing to want to do you since she’ll have more free time. Not in a manipulative, only helping to have sex kinda way, but a helping because you love her way. Talk to her about your needs as well and make sure to reassure her you want her for more than just sex, but that you are attracted to her and want sex too. Be understanding if she is too busy rn tho.

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