The fact that he hid that from you so long is crazy and says a lot about his character. Obviously he did not respect you enough as a person to be honest with you so that you could make an informed decision about being with him. I’d run if I were you

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I doubt his unpleasant beliefs stop there, and as 2 said, he's clearly fine with hiding them from you. don't stick around to find out later that he thinks women shouldn't be allowed to vote or whatever

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Oof. Honestly this is pretty big. Two years and he never mentioned some of his core values like his stances on vaccination. Sounds like he could be on the conservative side. Don’t compromise your morals for love. I have a feeling he hid these beliefs for so long because he knew you wouldn’t agree with them. For two years that must’ve taken some avoidance not to bring up a single time.

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How did you not find out any of these things earlier? Did you not vet him when you were dating on all these things/things that are important to you? It’s like if someone absolutely wants to have kids and never asks dates if they want to have kids. I feel like if there’s something huge to me I desire in a person I absolutely make sure early on the other person’s stance on that matches it seems only logical….. also, the fact that in 2 years his views on these things haven’t come up is very weird

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I’m sorry, that sucks. It feels (secondhand) like a weird sort of betrayal If he’d shared these beliefs when you first met him, would you have dated him? Why do you think he hid them? And is it possible to have an open conversation about his beliefs and whether he always had them, or what else he thinks?

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