Hi OP, why don’t you ease into the topic or find ways to see what he likes. This is not about seducing but more about knowing how he works. So as you hug him or show affection you can see what he likes and map that out. Eventually he will show interest and then have the talk.

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Weird question, but have you done stuff and just not talked about it? Or not mentioned it at all to each other, ever? Also, bring up the conversation somewhere casual, where you don’t necessarily have to make eye contact or be too close. I often go for cars. Take a drive, spitball, and reassure him that everything is okay and he doesn’t have to tell you everything right away

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