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My gf and i have been in a rough patch for the last 2 weeks and im not sure what to do about it. Shes been having some family issues recently and began a having a slight phone addiction which makes it feel like shes disinterested but i also know she has
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Anonymous 1d

From a girl pov, she probably does still want to be with you but is in a state of mind where the family situation is taking over so she has no more mental energy to put effort into the relationship. Ik that sounds terrible but I’ve been through it too and we’re still tg. Ik you don’t want to bring on more stress by bringing up your concerns but you’re a person in the relationship too and also have feelings/needs.

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Anonymous 1d

The family issues have been going on for the last 2 months or so but the seeming disinterest has been the last couple weeks. She also has a lot of anxiety generally and gets pretty emotional so i feel nervous to bring up my concerns without the conversation ending in me apologizing for upsetting her or feeling worse than before

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Anonymous 1d

A lot going on. I dont want to add to the stress but i also dont know what to do. I love her but im not what i can do to help her when we’re long distance

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Anonymous 15h

If she's going through a hard time, now is probably when she needs you most so please be there for her. It may come off as losing interest but really she's probably just drowning in her issues. As someone in a long distance relationship i know how hard things can be, but just tell her you need communication from her and that might get things back on the right track.

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