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Relationship Advice 2w
she let another guy get her breakfast and turns down every chance i get to treat her to things… (dating for almost 6mo now..) is this a red flag…? 🤔
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Anonymous 2w

Yeah

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Anonymous 2w

Not necessarily… coming from a girl I feel comfortable/prefer having my friends do stuff for me sometimes because I don’t want to feel like a burden to my partner. I suggest you start treating her to things without asking first. Surprise her but keep the surprises small initially (bringing her a snack, filling up her water bottle without her asking, etc.) Small things will eventually lead to bigger ones and she’ll begin to rely on you more

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Anonymous 2w

You really have to ask lol

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Anonymous 2w

really guy? you have to ask?

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

That’s such a new take. Positive advice!

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Anonymous replying to -> #4 2w

This. My boyfriend always wanted to pay for dinners, and if made me really uncomfortable. Whenever I paid, it made him uncomfortable. I’d suggest reassuring her that you don’t want anything in return for it (ex. Sex) and that’s its just for the joy and care in loving her. There’s an implicit debt from getting gifts that can be scary or make you feel like a burden

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