Relationship Advice on Sidechat | Told my bf not to come in me (with a condom) and he keeps not doing it. First couple times he said it felt too good he shut down and then other times he said he didnt pull out in time. Like he pulled out at the beginning but still technically came inside.

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Relationship Advice 18h

Told my bf not to come in me (with a condom) and he keeps not doing it. First couple times he said it felt too good he shut down and then other times he said he didnt pull out in time. Like he pulled out at the beginning but still technically came inside.

Anonymous 18h

huge dealbreaker. not respecting your clearly stated boundaries about your own body purely because he didn't feel like it. genuinely would recommend breaking up over this, at the very least stop having sex with him until he learns what 'no' means.

Anonymous 18h

Wait you’re making him pull out with a condom? I mean you do you but why

Anonymous 17h

I love it when there’s one guy in the comment section who just doesn’t get the references and takes the jokes literally and thinks he’s winning some kind of an imaginary linguistic duel against someone who isn’t even in the fight…

Anonymous 14h

disrespectful

Anonymous 17h

Anonymous 17h

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Anonymous 17h

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Anonymous 18h

Wow. I just realized how truly lucky I have been to have always had beautiful girlfriends who freaking LOVED it when I came inside them. I thought most women love to feel their man come inside them.

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Anonymous

#1 18h

He’s a great bf besides this just one thing. Hes always been respectful and all but sex is new to him so this is definitely something I am keeping an eye on.

Anonymous

#1 18h

Im gonna stop having sex until he actually takes what i mean serious and we will have a sit down talk about it.

Anonymous

OP 18h

good!

Anonymous

#2 18h

To be extra cautious. Im not on any BC. And weve had condoms break on us before. MULTIPLE times.

Anonymous

#3 18h

You cant really feel it through a condom. Just barely. But yeah I dont want a kid anytime soon.

Anonymous

OP 18h

Stop using cheap little condoms and get some magnums. They never break unless the dude has a ridiculously huge porno cock or something.

Anonymous

OP 18h

It’s called BIRTH CONTROL, AKA CONTRACEPTION… give it a try sometime and see the light!

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Anonymous

#3 18h

Well condoms are a form of contraception, but bc pills and injections specifically and iuds etc all can have hormonal/ other imbalance implications. I already have enough shit going on with my health. Not everyone can go on it, educate yourself as a man if youre gonna have sex.

Anonymous

OP 17h

Grow some testicles and just give it a try, alright? That’s all I’m saying.

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Anonymous

OP 17h

Sorry you gotta deal with this dipshit. Ik it’s probably nothing new but still, my sympathies.

Anonymous

#4 17h

Who asked you, cheesedick?

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Anonymous

#3 17h

you are a fucking weirdo

Anonymous

OP 17h

You’re either using expired/improperly stored condoms or using the wrong size if they’re consistently breaking. I would really focus on that issue first and maybe even look into spermicide lubes to use too (many condom brands sell condoms prelubed with spermicides but they are kinda expensive). Pulling out isn’t reliable at ALL, so it’s pointless when the condom works and useless if the condom had broken

Anonymous

#1 17h

You’re a fucking bully.

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Anonymous

#1 17h

And a simp. And that’s actually hard to do both of those things at the same time, so let’s all do a round of applause for this whack job for somehow managing to find a way! Yay!!!

-4

Anonymous

#2 17h

Yeah but mainly fuck condoms. Get on the pill or something and go au naturale.

-6

Anonymous

#3 17h

“Bully” I’m laughing my fucking ass off go take a chill pill homie <3 im sure you’ll recover from the mean mean yikyak user

Anonymous

#4 17h

I’m calmer than you are.

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Anonymous

#3 17h

Course you are. I could never be calm at a free comedy show

Anonymous

#4 17h

I’m genuinely having a great time. Like I was annoyed at first but then it just became fun, yanno?

Anonymous

#4 17h

Calmer than you are.

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Anonymous

#3 17h

I love when there’s one dumb ass embarrassing himself in the comment section

Anonymous

#2 17h

Haha it was a barely there condom we got and EXTREMELY thin and no lube. I cant use spermicide Im allergic unfortunately but we have since found better studier more reliable condoms that don’t break/ havent broken and we started incorporating ph safe lube. Thank you for the advice.

Anonymous

#2 17h

You can never be too safe tho haha.

Anonymous

OP 17h

You can be “too safe” in the sense you’re letting yourself become overly anxious and adding some unnecessary strain to the relationship. Your comfort is vital ofc and he needs to listen to it, but making the sex more stressful for him (and putting the entirety of contraceptive responsibility on him) isn’t conducive for a healthy sexual relationship long term

Anonymous

OP 16h

not to pry but please be careful… kinda sus to me that it’s happened multiple times… wouldn’t put it past him to not purposely break them, don’t fall for the bs some ppl are misleading

Anonymous

#2 15h

Im extremely sensitive to certain lubes, condoms, and contraceptives so my options of what I can actually use are limited. So pullout method + a good condom and a good lube is what I assort to. He HAS a condom on that I buy so its not just on him. All I ask is he lets me know when hes close so i can move or he pulls out. Im the one that can get pregnant not him so I can make these boundaries.

Anonymous

#6 15h

I am, it was the okamoto thins 😭 that were insanely thin and awful. My mistake for getting those.

Anonymous

OP 13h

ok good I jsut heard some horror stories and didn’t mean to scare you but also felt urgent to share