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Why do people date for years knowing they have conflicting future goals and will ultimately break up?
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Anonymous 1d

not everyone dates to marry

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Anonymous 1d

scared to be alone tbh

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Anonymous 1d

Because people aren’t always taught the future comes at the expense of the present

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Anonymous 20h

Well I dated my high school sweetheart, and as high schoolers it was fine but as we started maturing our goals changed…

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Anonymous 18h

Sometimes they hope their goals change, some people don’t date to marry, some people just don’t like being alone, depending on situations for different people

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Anonymous replying to -> bikesickle 1d

Fuck I meant to say that ananonymyously

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Anonymous replying to -> #1 23h

Would you not dread the fact that you will ultimately break up and the pain associated with that?

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 21h

no

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