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How do you talk to people. I’m really awkward and I’m never able to carry a convo or flirt, and when I do I ramble about stuff I’m sure the other person doesn’t care much about. Never been in a relationship and idk how to start. (Adding more below)
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Anonymous 1w

I’ve been on 2 different dates. The first one I thought was going well but then the guy lied about needing to help someone and bailed on me, then ghosted me online and irl. The other guy was sweet, but I felt awkward with him and it didn’t work out. Made out with a girl at a party once and tried to text her (she asked me to) but she was really dry and didn’t seem interested at all. (bear with me, there’s a bit more left lol)

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Anonymous 1w

I have ADHD and MIGHT be autistic, but I feel like those haven’t really gotten in the way of the past dates (besides the first one. I was rambling about an interest and it may have been excessive, but he said he had the same interest and we were overall mutually talking so….). I genuinely don’t know what I’m doing wrong 😭😭

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Anonymous 1w

I really wish I could help, but I’m pretty much in the same boat!

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Anonymous 1w

I’ve found that part of what makes my relationship so strong is our mutual appreciation and interest we have for one another. We aren’t trying to present ourselves in any certain way that’s not genuine, and we just really enjoy our conversations and niche interests. I’d say to put less weight on making a good romantic impression, and more on a friendly, curious connection!

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