Confide in trusted adults (that doesn’t have to mean your parents). They’ve encountered experiences like yours themselves, or have known others in their lives who have gone through it. They can give you anecdotes, advice, encouragement, consolation that will empower you to make the best decision for you. Don’t isolate yourself, and find ppl who support you

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dont do ur kid like that, esp if the father figure wont stay

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I’d personally say, given I’m a guy around the same age as you, to just simply terminate. It would be far less stressful to have (or not have, idk) a kid when you feel ready to have one instead of in a situation like this.

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it’s your body your choice, but at 20 i personally would be getting an abortion. you are so young and have your entire life ahead of you. you should have complete freedom, travel, go out whenever you want, get drunk, have little responsibilities. there are so many experiences you should be having at this age and having a kid is NOT one of them

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Trust your mind, not your heart

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Yeah, it can go either way tbh. Maybe you should, I hate to see this, test the father?

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It’s a beautiful and amazing thing to be given the opportunity to bring life into the world. There will be challenges, but you absolutely should have your baby!

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