Anonymous OP 8w

pretty reasonable boundary on your part imo

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Anonymous #1 8w

trying to figure out how much is my limit to deal with

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Anonymous #2 8w

She’s partaken in some of the smaller stuff, but she defends their drug use when I state that it makes me uncomfortable. It’s her life to live at the end of the day, I myself just don’t want that sort of life style in my life

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Anonymous OP 8w

if she’s using then that’s different but again if she’s not using and it’s just her friends and it doesn’t impact her or you then frankly she’s not “living that lifestyle” and it shouldn’t be a problem. if there’s other factors that bother you like partying or whatever then that’s different and could be fair

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Anonymous #2 8w

It’s a rave friend group, they’ve been raving for a few months, I know that’s what comes with raving but it’s not for me

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Anonymous OP 8w

so if you’re uncomfortable with that then maybe it’s just not meant to be. if she’s a party girl and that makes you uncomfortable or you simply don’t want your partner to be doing that the either talk to her about it or leave.

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Anonymous #2 8w

Yea I agree, it’s something I’ll have to talk to her about and decide one

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