He didn’t want to commit for months, but he told his mom abt me, said I love you, and was very romantic. When I left he wanted a relationship and has been pursuing me for months to be in a relationship. WTF do I do because I still love him but am cautious
I would make it clear if he can’t commit he’s not the one for you
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Anonymous21h
He still doesn’t want to commit, he’s only promising that as to not lose you. His not genuine, cut him lose and find the better you deserve.
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Anonymous#221h
He’s asked me to be his gf 3 times tho
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AnonymousOP21h
After you left?
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Anonymous#220h
Yeah, I left in like May and over the summer he asked twice and now that we’re back on campus he’s asked again
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AnonymousOP19h
Right, so he’s only been wanting to be together since you showed him you weren’t going to stay without commitment. Therefore I wouldn’t trust him to actually be able to give commitment if he’s just half ass promising you bc he doesn’t want to lose you.