What does foreplay look like in ur relationship?

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I’ve been her before and I obviously can’t tell you her exact feelings, but I can say that I just had a much lower libido than my partner. Whatever urges I had were already being satisfied by the amount he initiated, so if I HAD initiated it wouldn’t be bc I actually wanted sex, it was bc I knew it would make him feel better There’s no advice here really, I’m just proposing a possibility

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i have already tried talking to her and expressing how i feel but she doesn’t seem like she’s trying to make a change. i want sex for us to be pleasurable and a way we can be intimate instead of her seeing it as a chore. any advice for helping her open up or talking to her?

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