Anonymous OP 5w

We argue a lot over dumb stuff but always communicate it out and never go to sleep upset. We are not dating, but it's very serious.

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Anonymous OP 5w

We are pretty freaked out for each other. I feel like physical touch is the only way I know someone really likes me.

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Anonymous OP 5w

We were all good until a few days ago. He asked if I had sex with a guy on campus. I had told him no previously, but this time I told the truth

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Anonymous OP 5w

I felt horrible. We talked about it later that night. The next day, I answered an old talking stage's call in his room.

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Anonymous OP 5w

I told the person I wasn't really talking to anyone. This made him super angry, especially because I had just lied about the previous situation. (

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Anonymous OP 5w

We didn't talk for a whole day, but I still slept in his room because I have roommate issues. We cried over the situation and I feel like that shows he cares.

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Anonymous OP 5w

The next day, he called me over and said he forgave me but felt he needed to 'get back at me.'He said his 'pride' would make him try to get one on me when he goes home for break. This made me feel some type of way. He said his 'pride' would make him try to get one on me when he goes home for break. This made me feel some type of way. I go back to school Dec 1st and stay until break, Dec 12th. After that, I am transferring schools because the school is going downhill.

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Anonymous OP 5w

He is genuinely the best guy I have met. He babies me, matches my attitude, and taught me to talk kindly to myself. I know many have these college situations, but I feel like he is the one. Now, starting the break, I don’t know what he's doing. I've prayed to God about all of this, too So, what advice do you have? Do you think I should try to make the long distance work?

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Anonymous OP 5w

He doesn't trust me fully, but I fly free, so it wouldn't be bad to visit him. Or do you think I should just free it (end the relationship)?Part 2: His birthday is coming up. I was planning on buying him a $100 cologne and told his BFF I would. Did he forgive me just because he wants the gift? I don’t think he’s that type of guy, but I think I am just overthinking it.I want to enjoy my vacation, so any advice helps.

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Anonymous OP 5w

seems like he lovebombed you and you lied to him about some things so not great all around. him saying he would "need" to get back at you is really manipulative and creepy though.

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Anonymous OP 5w

I’m sorry… you said that you’re not dating “but it’s pretty serious”… If you’re not dating, then it’s by definition not serious and it doesn’t matter if you or him slept with other people lmao. Seems like he love bombed you and us expecting you to be monogamous without actually committing to you

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Anonymous OP 5w

If you aren’t dating, you owe each other nothing. He could say he loves you and treat you like a queen but if he isn’t willing to commit, then it literally could be nothing. He could be keeping you around for easy sex or because he’s bored. I’d say buy him something cheaper for his birthday if you wanna make it work and talk about a real exclusive relationship with him. Don’t spend $100 on a man you aren’t dating.

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Anonymous #3 5w

If he doesn’t want to date exclusively, that’s your answer

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