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4 year relationship ended about 1 month ago, we are still roommates & she’s already moved on & dating again, ironically the person she told me not to worry about. I’m a little hurt it took this little time to move on, am I overreacting or is this weird?
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Anonymous 1d

Ppl are mentally done and over the relationship before they even break up

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Anonymous 1d

you're clearly not overreacting because you were correct to be worried about what you were worried about

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Anonymous 1d

The main thing is I feel like the relationship really did mean nothing to her, I just feel kinda used, but idk if 1 month is a normal amount of time for people to move on, i definitely haven’t lol

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Anonymous 19h

Definitely move out asap, can’t be healthy living with each other

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Anonymous replying to -> #3 19h

She’s moving out soon, she wanted me to leave for the weekend so she could have the house to herself and her new boyfriend and I said no, so she has been staying with him most of the time. I usually only see her in the mornings when she comes back for get ready for work

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

The audacity wow

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 18h

i think she’s being a jerk by how she’s handling the situation living with you - but for some people a month is about right

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