Relationship Advice on Sidechat | found a framed picture of my bf and his crazy mentally unstable ex according to him in old drawer. When I asked him about it, he was dismissive. I gave him +1 week to move that picture in the attic , Nothing. Am I crazy to bring it up again? Or move it me

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Relationship Advice 7w

found a framed picture of my bf and his crazy mentally unstable ex according to him in old drawer. When I asked him about it, he was dismissive. I gave him +1 week to move that picture in the attic , Nothing. Am I crazy to bring it up again? Or move it me

Anonymous 6w

You set a clear boundary and he ignored it, that’s a big red flag. You can bring it up again and see if he apologizes and moves it, but it’s really weird that he didn’t just immediately move it

Anonymous 6w

If that’s he sees her that’s extremely weird for him to have that sitting in his room. Clearly disrespectful to you, if he knew that it bothered you and didn’t care to do anything to fix it. Decisions will need to be made

Anonymous 6w

Honestly one of the craziest things I’ve read on here. He needs to THROW OUT that picture immiedately. With almost no exceptions no one should ever be keeping pictures of themselves and their ex, especially if they’re in a new relationship.

Anonymous

#2 6w

Yea exactly that’s what I was trying to say. This is not specifically about his ex anymore. It’s about him ignoring something that bothers me.

Anonymous

OP 6w

100% his actions make it seem as though he cares more about keeping a picture of his ex in a drawer than making sure that you feel secure and respected in the relationship

Anonymous

#2 6w

Exactly!!! And when I brought it up the other day, he proceeded to call me insecure and jealous

Anonymous

OP 6w

That’s really weird. I feel like something else must be going on. If it wasn’t a big deal, then he’d just move it :/