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Relationship Advice 1d
found a framed picture of my bf and his crazy mentally unstable ex according to him in old drawer. When I asked him about it, he was dismissive. I gave him +1 week to move that picture in the attic , Nothing. Am I crazy to bring it up again? Or move it me
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Anonymous 1d

You set a clear boundary and he ignored it, that’s a big red flag. You can bring it up again and see if he apologizes and moves it, but it’s really weird that he didn’t just immediately move it

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Anonymous 1d

Honestly one of the craziest things I’ve read on here. He needs to THROW OUT that picture immiedately. With almost no exceptions no one should ever be keeping pictures of themselves and their ex, especially if they’re in a new relationship.

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 1d

Yea exactly that’s what I was trying to say. This is not specifically about his ex anymore. It’s about him ignoring something that bothers me.

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 22h

100% his actions make it seem as though he cares more about keeping a picture of his ex in a drawer than making sure that you feel secure and respected in the relationship

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Anonymous replying to -> #2 22h

Exactly!!! And when I brought it up the other day, he proceeded to call me insecure and jealous

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Anonymous replying to -> OP 19h

That’s really weird. I feel like something else must be going on. If it wasn’t a big deal, then he’d just move it :/

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