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My boyfriend and I are getting more distant and he’s not putting effort in for flowers or anything, am I okay to be feeling weird about this? I know he still loves me I just have a weird gut feeling not cheating just that the same effort is gone
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Anonymous 2w

It happens. But the question is does he show it in other ways? For example does he still offer to do little stuff for you?

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Anonymous 2w

Do you guys know each others love languages..?

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Anonymous 2w

Talk to him about it. It might be he isn’t as into you anymore or it could be he’s stressed or focusing on other areas of his life or he just doesn’t realize it’s important to you or is trying to love you in other ways or is running low on money. There could be so many different reasons and you’ll never know or work it out unless you talk to him about it

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