Relationship Advice on Sidechat | How do I get him off the damn game. Like I understand it’s his way of relaxing but I just feel like we never do anything fun and when I try he never wants to do anything but play the game.

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Relationship Advice 3w

How do I get him off the damn game. Like I understand it’s his way of relaxing but I just feel like we never do anything fun and when I try he never wants to do anything but play the game.

Anonymous 3w

if you express that to him and he doesn't change, he's basically saying he made his choice. up to you what to do with that info.

Anonymous 3w

As a male gamer myself, here is what would do it for me. Communicate with him your issue with it and how it makes you feel, but most importantly offer up a solution. By that I mean offer up something to do that isn’t gaming, like a movie, dinner, playing a card game. You need to offer something up in a trade of sorts

Anonymous 3w

You have a few choices. Either watch him play. Or join in playing and try to enjoy it with him. If none of those work. Talk with him and eventually cut your losses.

Anonymous 2w

Talk to him. It’s about priorities… he will adjust or, if he sticks to the pattern despite your feelings, show you how he feels:

Anonymous 2w

Suck his d

Anonymous

#3 3w

I feel like I do try and play with him and things but it just feels so constant. I want to do more than games.

Anonymous

OP 3w

Maybe change the game then. Try maybe getting into something like D&d as a couple.

Anonymous

#4 3w

This is actually advice I think will change the outcome. Thank you for the advice I appreciate it a lot