Anonymous #1 23h

Yes I know I sound delusional but her friends want us to get back together, her parents as well, thats why I still have even a little bit of hope

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Anonymous OP 23h

Now why did she break up with you

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Anonymous #1 23h

A girl sent me nudes on my phone, to clarify a random girl that I do not know at all, and she went thru my phone while I was sleeping, got her stuff and left while I was still sleeping

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Anonymous OP 23h

Why would a random girl send you nudes🤨.. also the chance of her finding that on the odd chance she decided to go through your phone is weird.

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Anonymous #1 23h

A girl from my college added me on snap and I add back everyone from my college because I like making friends and I always told her when I would add people back and she always was fine with it, and I agree with the second part thats why im hoping for a second chance cause shes gone theu the exact same way times before and ofc there was nothing

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Anonymous OP 23h

How often does she go through your phone..

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Anonymous OP 23h

Yeah.. no her saying she doesn’t care and then going through your phone is showing that in fact she probably does care but she probably doesn’t want to seem controlling or something. I don’t go through my boyfriend’s phone just for fun.. and it’s extremely rare that I do. Also I don’t know any girl that just sends nudes for fun to ppl they aren’t talking to but that is just me, women are all different.

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Anonymous #1 23h

Yes I agree it was very weird but shes told me she will never forgive me and hates me but Im just hoping thats just the hurt shes feeling right now and that she will listen tk her friends, also she has texted all of our mutual friends saying I cheated

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Anonymous OP 23h

How long have you been together, also did you know about them before she did?

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Anonymous #1 23h

I did know about them and was planning on telling her the next day after she woke up, we had known eachother for 7 months and been dating for 4, ik thats not that long😭

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Anonymous OP 23h

She left without letting me explain

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Anonymous OP 23h

Why didn’t you remove that girl immediately. That makes no sense, Idk dude..

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Anonymous #1 23h

Because I wanted to tell her that it happend in case idk she thought I was keeping secrets or something

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Anonymous OP 23h

Thats why I said at the beggining ik I messed up

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Anonymous OP 23h

You could’ve told her anyways and still removed the girl😭

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Anonymous #1 23h

Ik it was dumb chat but like am I cooked

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Anonymous OP 23h

Me and my boyfriend don’t do opposite sex’s on social media bc of this😭

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Anonymous OP 23h

Yeah bro🫪

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Anonymous #1 23h

Thats fair but a lot of our friends our mutual so she has guy friends I have girl friends cause it was about trust

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Anonymous #1 23h

Fuh.

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Anonymous OP 23h

Baby she never trusted you😭

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Anonymous #1 23h

Yea ik.

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Anonymous OP 23h

Do you have that girl removed now?

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Anonymous #1 22h

Yea obviously but also my ex now has me blocked so didnt really matter

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Anonymous OP 22h

It does matter, I would make sure you have that girl removed off everything. Your ex will stalk you and see who you are mutuals with, try and find posts you’ve been liking and whatever else because she’s going to want to see if there’s more proof you’ve been “cheating.” It’s very possible that she will reach back out at some point and make sure you do when you can too but also don’t over step😭

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Anonymous #1 22h

Ohh no no shes already removed from everything, I was saying doesnt matter because like it was too late, and shes already reached out saying the she hates me and never forgiving me stuff, then I responded and just apologized, explained my side, but like more in depth of course, that was this morning

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Anonymous OP 22h

I’m saying this from experience and also bc she was already going through your phone🙏🏻

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Anonymous OP 22h

I’d just give her a minute then

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Anonymous #1 22h

Yes I wilk thanks

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Anonymous OP 22h

Maybe you should remove random girls that don’t mean anything too… it might help her feel better if you reconnect

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Anonymous OP 22h

Just an idea

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Anonymous #1 22h

Yea thats already been done

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Anonymous #2 21h

Nah gross I only want her

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